The Mystery of the Mexican
Some insight by Mexi

If you have looked around this site, you have already heard me describing the beautiful members of the Mexican race as Delicious, Mysterious, and other highly complimentary and very heart felt descriptions.  The one that the greatest amount of people will agree upon without knowing why is “Mysterious”.

Lets take a big jump ahead.  90% of the world’s psychedelic plants are native to Mexico.  90% of the world’s power plants that also have the ability to take the imbiber on trips to other worlds are native to Mexico.  What does this show us, on a metaphysical level?  The world is full of power plants in a generic sense, power plants that heal, plants that give birth to incredible medicines, plants that give birth to deadly poisons that are used in the world, and Mexico’s, wild areas, plants that send you to other worlds, There is power in many plants, and in fact maybe the powerful plants outnumber the powerless ones.  But to have 90% of the hallucinagenic ones, this shows us that the spirits that each of those plants holds or are connected with have found a gathering point in Mexico.  It is their hang out point, they have chosen it, and these are great powers and I’m sure they chose it for a reason.  Mexico rings with magic and brujeria (witchcraft).  Mexican Sorcery in particular involves accepting a reality that is very foreign to the every day reality we all ascribe to.  The world is changed into something else at will.  Something about all this, the massive belief in magic in Mexico, the religion, the Catholicism so rich in Saints, the religious traditions like the Quincinera (the celebration of a girl’s womanhood at her fifteenth birthday; even that has a strange vibration and seems to be a strange choice of age to westerners.  Mexico drips magic.   In the cities, there are a lot of westernized people who not only don’t believe in magic and witchcraft but hate the thought of it.  Very Much so.  But those are hypocrites some of the time, and on the other side the more poor or native Mexican is deeply imbedded in the use of curanderos, shamans and the like.  This is a factor in the mysteriousness of Mexicans.

Another factor is the Mexican conception of time.  People who have social events with Mexican friends or lovers eventually get driven crazy by their friends lateness or cancellations or just plain not showing up.  They don’t understand that in Mexico city, if your appointment with a businessman is for 12.00 noon, if he shows up any earlier than 5:00 PM, he would be insulted if you were angry.  Why is this?  Because time and the related are clock oriented to the American, and EVENT oriented to the Mexican.  In other words, the Mexican with Events, not time.  So if there is an event that crops up at 11:00 AM, and it is something that he feels needs doing, he simply goes and does it. Your meal will wait.  Often he will not even call, because this is a new EVENT and this is what is important and deserving of attention.  He is walking through his life as you are fuming in the restaurant.  .  Then perhaps another event presents itself.  He goes into that event.  Finally at 5:17, he shows up at the restaurant, not a bit of bother or guilt about him.  “Well it’s dinner time almost, lets have a cocktail”.  And the event turns into the bar.  This is just the way this grand race is where time is concerned, so if you ever make appointments of dates or any kind of get togethers with a Mexican, Mexi wants everybody to know that they should lay out their thoughts about time, about this being the United States and a society that runs on the clock, about you not wanting to have the meeting if the person will be late, about them calling if there is any problem, and the rest of it.  You have a chance this way, but not a certain chance.  This quality is just something that comes with the territory.  As the Mexicans themselves say, “There is always a weevil in the sack of grain”.

We must also must remember that Mexicans are honorable people:  on the shores of Baja California Norte or Sur are small fishing villages, where the people have nothing, but they still meet you and welcome you into their small wooden house, and cook you an amazing dinner of lobster and fish and beans and rice.  While your millionaire neighbor would probably not buy you this dinner, they, who really do have nothing other than essentials, take noble pride in serving you this way.  From the millionaires to the poorest, most Mexicans are honorable and have self respect.  The criminals and idiots are found in any society, but other than those, they have their honor: respect it. We must suppose that even some of the criminals have their honor.  There is another quality that makes up their mysterious personality.

And then comes the family.  To a Mexican, especially a young one, the family can come between your hopes and their realization many times or permanently.  Dates will fall one after another because “My Tia Louisa needs me to go get her some stuff from Big Lots” or “Uncle Jose is sick” or any other kind of thing that is happening with the family is put before you in priority, and as westerners usually put the family behind but alive at the age of 18-22, it is weird to see the strength of the continuing attachment.  Get ready for it because it too will impede your progress if you love someone Mexican.

We know that the best is not going to come easy.  We are fighters and will know now the ultimate secret about sexuality and attracting lovers:  If you are willing to wait, you can ve them all!!!

All and all, these and other factors make the Mexican a mysterious though to us attractive person all in all, and these are the “weevils in the sack of grain” other than the first one about psychedelic plants and shamanism, which was a positive quality in my opinion.  www.mexilovers.com is going to soon put SDTrutbec, the first person to open an online psychic site, on the mexilovers.com site within a month, so obviously we like the spiritual.